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The Dog Charmer by Tom Shelby

When Two’s Company and Three’s a Crowd…

Five-month-old Baxter needs a little help fitting in with Webb and Brandee. (Photo provided)

Dear Tom,

Jeanette and I were hoping that you could help us. We are very much in need of assistance in integrating our new 5-month-old puppy, Baxter, a male bassett/beagle mix, with our existing 4-year old littermate brother and sister lab mixes. Currently, Baxter needs to be separated pretty much at all times from Webb and Brandee. The male lab plays too rough with Baxter the rare times that we have had Baxter and Webb together. Brandee and Baxter play okay together. When all three are outside together playing, a new dynamic develops, where Brandee and Webb team up to go after Baxter. You come highly recommended to us from our neighbors.

Thanks, Mike and Jeanette.

Dear Mike and Jeanette,

Generally speaking, in the great majority of cases, the best thing you can do to have dogs get along is to interfere as little as possible. Let them work it out. After meeting with you, I learned that the worst incident of their rough play was Baxter yelping a couple of times when somewhat overwhelmed with the roughness and size of Brandee and Webb. 

The first thing you want to do is stop keeping them separated so much. Integrate them much more, under supervision. I taught all three dogs, “Leave it!” by having them ignore a hot dog on a plate on the floor. Be it a rabbit, a dropped piece of pizza on the sidewalk, or another dog, B, B, and W learned to turn away from whatever they were focused on when they heard, “Leave it!”

Mike and Jeanette, if you practice the command with each of the dogs individually a few times, they will be much more cooperative when you feel their play is getting too rough or wild. Redirection is also key. If they’re starting to annoy you, redirect their interest with some kind of diversion. Grab some treats (that, in itself, may grab their attention) and call them to come and sit to earn a treat. Then, a minute of “stay” training and decorum is restored.

Stay patient, and with your parenting, let them work it out.

Dog Charmer Tom

Tom’s book, “Dog Training Diaries,” was judged as one of the three best training books by Dog Writer’s Association of America. Tom Shelby, The Dog Charmer Cooperstown author, answers pet owners’ questions on training their dogs. E-mail your questions to dogsrshelby@msn.com

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  1. Hello owner of two begals here (beagle basset hounds) it can be very dangerous for a short long back high short Burst energy dog to be with normal sized dogs. It can take on playful slam, fall, tumble, trip, bite, twist, you name it to break their backs and become paralyzed.
    Although begals are Perfect beginner dogs for apartments, duplex, houses, farm yards and more. They don’t do good with dogs bigger than them. Not because they are mean or can’t handle being around other dogs it’s because they are usually always born with a long back and as mentioned above can lead to injury that cost more than the breed it self.
    I hope baxter is doing well and has played it safe and the other dogs have learned to be gentle. Or that bacter found an amazing home with lots of interesting smells to sniff for hours.

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